\u2022 Set the wedding date (Shaadi Date):<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf the wedding in your house is according to the time of Muhurta, then first call your Pandit and decide the date of marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you do not believe in Muhurta, then decide the date according to your well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 decide the venue\/wedding hall\/garden (Shadi Venue):<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nDetermine a good venue\/wedding hall\/garden as soon as possible after the wedding date is fixed. Do not delay it, otherwise,<\/strong> you do not get the space according to your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\u2022 List of Guest \/ Guest (Guest List):<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nMake a guest list and first inform the guests coming from outside the city by phone. And ask them to book their tickets. Also ask them the date and time of their arrival and departure. Do not feel shy to ask as these are important for the convenience of your guests. Accordingly, make proper arrangements for their stay because hotel or Dharamshala is not easily available on wedding days. Therefore, book it in advance about two months before the wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Train \/ bus \/ air booking or other means of booking<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you have to take a procession, make a train \/ bus \/ air ticket booking. It is difficult to get confirmed tickets due to the huge crowd at the time of marriage. Besides, if you have to go by bus, car etc., also book it on time.
\u2022 Shopping Preparation<\/p>\n\n\n\n
First of all make a list in which<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Make a list of the gifts given to the guests and start taking them accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- Make your own list of clothes. When to wear what and how many dresses you want because the clothes have to be sewn, it may take a lot of time, so think about all this in advance for about 1 to 2 months. Choose it according to your budget, it will not cost wastefully.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Shadi Party Menu:<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n‘This is also an important task in which you have to first decide how many days you have to cook and how much time you have to give food and breakfast. Prepare the menu list according to that. Also, take care of the weather. There is a lot of difference between the menus of the summer season and the menus of the cold season, making the list only after taking it into consideration.
Special note: Make food in proper quantity. If the quantity is still high, do not throw it away, keep the contact with the organization that already takes food. Your food will not go in vain and reach the needy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2022 Shadi Card:<\/strong>
Get the card ready two months before the wedding and send the post cards immediately, but inform the guests outside the city by phone or mail. Send a soft copy of the card to everyone via mail because no one can take responsibility for whether the card is received on time or not. So, make sure to call or email guests outside your memory.
The guests of the city should also finish the process of giving the card till fifteen days before the wedding, i.e. start distributing the cards a month before the wedding. Distribute this work, involve other members of your household in this work or you can choose any outsider for this work. In this, you send the card by that person and in return, contact your guest on the phone and invite them, this will save your time and the guest will not mind by making phone calls.
All these tasks should be finished fifteen days before the wedding. After that those tasks which you will do when you come near the wedding date.
\u2022 Distribute all the functions of marriage. Write in a list which responsibility is given to which person and from time to time ask that person about the responsibility and remind them.
\u2022 Make a rough list of the guest and decide their living arrangements in rough copy, that is, how many rooms you have, or where you have to accommodate them. How far is your wedding venue from that place? How many people can stay in it. Decide all this and make an allotment list.
\u2022 Contact the guest coming from outside and decide on what day, at what time they will come. Accordingly, make proper arrangements to receive them. Assign this work to a trusted person but do the task of reminding yourself in time.
\u2022 Prepare and pack all the pooja related materials at the wedding. Find out the entire wedding process. Note it in one place respectively and accordingly determine their time on which day, at what time the rituals are to be held and what materials will be included in it, as well as which members are required to be in that ceremony. Prepare the list of all these things and pack the goods according to different functions in the same way. Also, be sure to inform the members who are engaged in the ritual, at what time they are required to join which ritual.
\u2022 When you have sat in the puja at the time of marriage, then you do not have any inconvenience in taking the goods, so put a list on each packing, which contains the name of the ceremony and the list of the materials used in it. There will be no work and work will be done easily. With the list, anyone can find it easily.
\u2022 Prepare the bag of all your family members a week before the wedding. Packing in which ceremony, when to wear what and when. Gather all the ingredients in one bag.
\u2022 Make a list of all the rituals of the wedding, note the time in it and make some copy of it and place it in the place where the rituals are to be held. This will not disturb the order, at the same time, when the time is written, everyone will know the time so that the ritual can start on time.
\u2022 On the wedding day, all the special families should be given the task of attending the guests in advance, where to send them according to their stay, how many times there are arrangements for food and break fast, tea etc., give this information to your guests. It is also important to take care of the guests in the wedding, it determines your personality for a lifetime.
\u2022 You will be able to expect this from your guests only when you are ready for 10 minutes before each wedding ceremony. If you do all the work on time, then you will enjoy a lot in the entire wedding.
\u2022 Make all the preparations for the bride and groom at the wedding carefully. Prepare their bag and keep all the ingredients in it so that nothing is left untouched. Do this work before fifteen days of marriage.
\u2022 Take full information from the person who has been given the responsibility of preparing the wedding procession in the wedding and see all the information before two days.
\u2022 Prepare a blank bag for wedding gifts and envelopes etc. and give the responsibility to a reliable and responsible person. Often the bag filled with gifts is lost. So keep it in special work too.
\u2022 When the guests go to their house after the wedding, prepare their return gift in advance and give it to them at the time of their departure. Pack the food with the guest outside the city and give it in proper packing so that there is no problem in keeping them.
\u2022 Clean your house and go to the place of marriage, so that when you reach home after marriage, you will not have any problem in performing the ritual or rest.
Particular rituals are played in the wedding, which is the responsibility of the Pandit, for which you should prepare the rituals as mentioned above a few days in advance, so that all your work will be done easily.
Apart from rituals, wedding party and laddis are important preparations for the music, for which you need to gather a few days in advance, for that also the necessary tips are given in the above points.<\/p>\n\n\n\n1 arrange the DJ first.<\/strong>
2 Make a list of who can dance the wedding, if possible, talk to that member and ask for his favorite song.
3 Must gather all the good songs for the wedding because the biggest problem is when the songs are not available on time. Make a list of famous wedding songs, some old dancing songs and latest songs in a song, and take them to a CD, DVD or pen drive.
4 Although the preparation of dance starts many days in advance, but if you do not have time, then according to the above point, take out the songs and select the song yourself and tell the dancing people. This can easily lead to a good female music.
5 Music must have a good exchange \/ operator because if the operator is good, then the audience is interested and the audience comes to perform on their own.
Here were some easy tips with which you can improve your female music. Apart from this, if you want to practice your choreographer and give your music through practice, then you are the best.<\/p>\n